a total dilemma

I always complain about my father, about my parent's principles, about how warped their logic is regarding stayovers, and overseas travelling. But just yesterday, I finally figured why are they so strict and 'obstinate' regarding this matter.
Although I might not fully accept this no-staying-over nonsense even though it is an all girls thing, I kinda understand their concern and finally able to be in their shoes when I am some third person..

Right now I am in this dilemma because I feel that I do not have the right to make a decision even though it concerns me. Both sides are taking a very firm stand, leaving me with no choice actually.

This is definitly going to affect me indirectly in the long run. Whether is it the permission to take the car out, the priority in terms of car use or even overseas trips, I would be in the losing end either way. What man..

Like my mother said, " Why did you drag the second into the picture?"

I love my mother. But I do not love the rest any less.